So, in church we covered Exodus 13-20… where Moses receives the 10 commandments… It’s kind of nice to take in the bible for what it has to offer away from what the media portrays and really learn something from it.

Anyhow, the commandments are mentioned again after the birth of Jesus in the book of Matthew. I was reading Matthew 5:27-28 and it says,

You have heard the it was said, “Do not commit adultery.” But I tell you, everyone who looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

I wish more people realized the act of cheating is more than a physical act. So many of my exes honestly believe that unless their penis enters some sort of orifice in another female’s body, it’s not cheating. The intent to lust after another woman or even emotionally lust after another woman is cheating… For example, Andwele (the d-bag) on a very regular basis would message and call his ex girlfriend to tell her how much he loved her. Through explicit messages about how he doesn’t want other men fucking her… the list goes on. Although she was miles and miles away, she enabled his behavior, just like everyone else in his life, and I’m sure apart of her really wants to reconcile with him…

Honestly, it was a lot more painful to be in a relationship with a person who could not commit to me emotionally. I could look past physical cheating… but to give your heart and soul to another person far worse than any act of fucking. Physical attraction comes and goes, it can be worked on, etc… but once you give your love to someone and they damage your heart… how can you possibly look back?

Reading those lines really made wonder, how often we all committed adultery to a loved one? How often do we lust after people we aren’t supposed to? How often do we hold little disregard for respect for the people who care for us?

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First… how does she think babies are made? Secondly, one of my boyfriends? I’m lead to believe she’s probably ten!! Lastly, why wouldn’t you believe your mother, she had you! And if you didn’t believe her about how people get pregnant, why didn’t you ask her how else people get pregnant!

February is National Condom Month… and I hope all of you are taking the time to get it on safely. Condoms are probably the closest thing to abstinence in terms of protecting yourself from STIs (Sexually Transmitted Infections). Obviously, abstinence is the only for sure way to prevent just about every mishap that comes along with sex, but let’s be realistic; people are having sex, and they are having stupid sex, making babies going into this stupid world, and stupid sex can lead to STIs.

Condoms are cheap and available to just about everyone. There isn’t a reason for you not to use a condom unless you’re in a committed relationship or you get tested frequently as porn stars. (They get tested every 3-7 days!)

For those of you who make excuses:

1. For those who complain about loss of feeling, get polyurethane condoms. They are ultra-thin, practically transparent, and they conduct body heat extremely well. Sure they cost more, but I think your peen will thank you later after you realized you slept with the town hoe.
2. Cost… Eff you guys. That is the lamest excuse in the book. Any health clinic will give you free condoms. There’s a Planned Parenthood in just about every city. Don’t be a dumb ass.
3. Size… let’s face it… 99% men will not need Magnums. ‘Nuff said… and if you do, just buy the freaking Magnums!

Condoms come in fun colors, flavors, ribbed, lubed… you name it. Just be smart and do society a favor.